In the heat of the pandemic, my favorite author, Rachel Hollis, produced an honest book about dealing with tragedy. She was beginning to write this book about other experiences of her life when her husband and she decided to get a divorce. In all of her past books, she speaks about not talking from open wounds. She had to reexamine her writing and adapt it to the things she was currently going through. I thought her writings were extremely raw and opened up a vulnerable part about Rachel. At the end of each chapter, Rachel offered some tips about things that helped her through tough times. This was helpful to relate to the author and show the reader they are not alone.
One of the common themes throughout her most recent books is the trauma that came from her brother's suicide. She opened up about the story behind that day and decided that it would be most helpful to come to terms with the trauma by talking through it. I was surprised that she finally had talked about this event. It was completely vulnerable and impressive to see her courage to share.
One of the biggest points that I got for her was that even though you may be going through a hard time, you need to show up for the people in your life. I think it is incredibly important to be open about your feelings, but continue to show up. I do think this was an important book to write, but I feel like it was a little too preachy. She constantly points out that grief is different for everyone, but you still need to complete your obligations. I think it was a broad statement and a bit judgmental. I think the book was very insightful but was harsh at times.
At the time that I read the book, I did not have any extremely troublesome situations in my life, but this would be a perfect guide to working through grief. I would encourage this book to anyone going through a tough time and needs a little extra help picking up the pieces of their life.
Rating: 3.2/5 Stars
Very fair review, Peyton. Sometimes it's difficult to find some constructive criticism with our favorite authors, but it shows good maturity on your part. You alluded to this, but I have a feeling this is a book that would need to be read at a certain point in your life, when you're going through grief or something like that. Her message, though, is a good one. I remember when my mom died two years ago. It was right during final exams and I had to somehow get that all done while still going through the grief of her loss and the timing of the funeral, etc. Thanks for sharing this book and your review of it!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear that. It's comforting to hear that it is a choice that everyone needs to make during those hard times. And you're exactly right, it's a great book to keep in the back of my mind and maybe pick up again when life happens.
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